FROM THE DESK OF LOY MACHEDO
Love, Sex, Money…..Then Betray – How I Lost Everything To A Thai Woman
Interesting Topic right?
Especially when you use the word ‘Betray’
So before I whet your appetite, let’s start with Private Dancer.
Have you read the book – Private Dancer?
Take my word – Read it.
I call it the
MUST READ BIBLE FOR ALL FOREIGNERS WHO VISIT THAILAND.
What is it about?
This is a story about a Foreigner who falls in love with a Thai Bar Girl.
How he falls in love with her
How she uses him
And how eventually he dies.
But what makes the book incredibly amazing is
The ability of the Author to show you how a Man’s mind works
Versus how a Woman’s Mind Works.
How a man thinks versus
How a woman thinks.
Trust me – It is a MUST READ!
And by far the MOST POWERFUL BOOK I HAVE EVER READ.
Among the Top 10 on my Must Read List.
Now about me….
Even after all the precautionary measures,
all the research I had done,
reading all the stories of men
losing all their money,
being scammed of their property
their peace of mind and even
the life-savings and ending up on the streets completely destroyed –
I still made a fatal mistake
I trusted a Thai Woman
nearly giving her everything
My relationship with her fortunately lasted only 4 months
As I Went through a roller coaster of emotions where
I lost some of my hard-earned money
Many hours and hours of sleep and
but the biggest thing I lost
Was my complete peace of mind.
So after having a near mental breakdown
And surviving it – I have finally decided to write this article.
WARNING – WHAT YOU SHOULD NOT ASSUME….
FALSE ASSUMPTION #1
THAI PEOPLE ARE BAD.
There are good people AND there are bad people.
Not only in Thailand but all over the world.
We cannot and should not brush everyone with the same color.
Over here, some of my closest and most trusted friends are Thai.
I stay with a Thai family and they are the most amazing people I have ever met.
So assuming that I am saying All Thai People are Bad – Is Wrong.
Like everywhere in the world and in all countries, Thailand is also filled with good and bad people.
FALSE ASSUMPTION #2
THAI WOMEN ARE BAD.
I have met some really amazing Thai women whom I have had the honor of calling as my friends and my sisters. In fact the women who have helped me and who advised me against this woman – were all Thai women.
So assuming I am saying All Of Thai Women are Bad – Is Wrong.
The majority of Thai Women whom I have met (I avoid meeting Bar-Girls, Ladyboys & women who drink, smoke and go for parties) are truly amazing and worthy of respect.
FALSE ASSUMPTION #3
I AM NOT SAYING ALL THAILAND IS BAD.
I consider Thailand the most beautiful and natural country in the world.
And the very fact that I have chosen to stay in Thailand – should prove that Thailand is a beautiful country.
So assuming that I am saying All of Thailand is Bad – Is Wrong
I chose to live in Thailand because Thailand is the best country in the world.
FALSE ASSUMPTION #4
I AM NOT SAYING ALL FOREIGNERS ARE INNOCENT AND GOOD
The majority of the tourist who come here come for parties, pleasure, smoking, drinking, drugs and doing all the things they cannot do back home. Especially since everyone knows them.
So for them – the only option they have – is come here and do everything – especially given the fact that no one is watching them.
If you are talking about men, there are so many men who do nothing but ask women for naked pictures, who just want to have a sex chat and who want to do nothing but have fun
It takes 2 hands to clap. If there are bars, pubs, clubs and prostitutes – it is because there is a buyer for these services. So tourists are not innocent little angels.
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THIS ARTICLE
REVENGE OR REDEMPTION?
So what exactly is the purpose of this article?
Is it to take revenge?
Is it to ruin her name in society?
Is it to make her want me?
Is it to marry her?
The purpose of this article is none of the above.
I am not a revengeful person
I have never taken revenge against anyone
I have not done it before
I don’t intend to do it now.
However, the purpose of this letter
Is to act as a warning letter to all those foreigners
Who come down to the Asian Countries assuming
These places are just a land of smiles, milk and honey.
Yes, Thailand is a very beautiful place.
But it is also filled with dangers.
FINALLY BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE….PLEASE KEEP IN MIND
I am no saint myself.
I don’t intend to position myself as one.
I have my flaws.
I am fat, I am ugly, I am tattooed.
I do not smoke, drink alcohol, I am not very sociable
I am a workaholic, I am a bit weird and I love myself and my brand.
However Betrayal is no where in my lexicon.
The reason I choose this woman because I felt she was the best for me.
My agenda was simple.
Live happily ever after.
However, I suppose she had a different set of rules, priorities, and objectives.
For her – the most important person was her daughter, herself and her family.
I was more like a means to an end.
What did she want?
My assumption inclines more towards Security, Future & yes, –
Looking after her family on my shoulders.
Not that I find anything bad with all this.
I DO NOT SEE ANYTHING WRONG ABOUT ALL THIS.
- Telling me Lies
- Taking me for a Ride
- Playing with my Trust
- Making me suffer
- Making me lose my sleep for days
- Making me lose my peace of mind
- Taking my money without returning it
That is not right by any means or any standards.
That is why her face, her identity and her details will be changed throughout this article.
I don’t wish this woman or her family anything bad.
I do not wish to marry her or associate with her at all.
I hope she moves on with her life, just as I move with me.
But I also hope – she never repeats this or does this with anyone ever again.
So here is the Real Shocking Story Of Loy Machedo’s Version of Private Dancer
I have always been as transparent & open as possible on Social Media
Both about my Personal Life & Professional Life.
Yes, there are trade secrets & important aspects of my life
I would never share with anyone let alone the Internet World –
But as far as possible – I do my best
To stay true to my values, principles & towards my personal integrity.
The “Fall In Love & Getting Married” Incident
that has happened with this woman TOON
(Name Changed to protect her identity)
Is nothing short of Shocking, Powerful, Unbelievable &
At times – It is even Impossible to digest.
Even though we didn’t get married legally,
I wholeheartedly had accepted this woman
as someone, I loved and wished to spend my whole life with.
I seriously did.
And after having being with more than 400 women,
I genuinely for the 1st time in my life had made up my mind
to spend and dedicate everything about my life –
from my money, my success, my happiness –
and dedicated it to this woman and to the children from her.
SO WHAT EXACTLY WAS PLANNED OUT
1. I was going to buy property and put it on her name.
2. I was going to build a house and put it on her name
3. I going to take a full insurance and put her as the beneficiary.
4. My bank accounts would be on her name.
5. My revenue & savings she would operate.
6. I would pay for her education to learn English so that she would be a professional and have a bright future
7. I would buy her all the latest technology so that she would be technology savvy
8. I would help her build an online store and help sell and make money online
9. I would teach her all the skills on Personal Branding that made me #1 – and I would make her as good or even better than me.
So in other words –
everything I was, I am and would be –
would be dedicated to her.
Well – that what you read just now –
is to put it in the most crude and rude fashion –
The Power of a Pussy.
The Incredible Seductive Powers of a Woman
The Ability of a Woman To Control A man.
WHAT MAKES IT SO SHOCKING?
Can you believe that
This 26 year old petite girl,
with long hair, fair skin, quiet demeanor
and very simplistic behavior
Managed to conquer the Tattooed Trainer?
Yes, Yes, Yes, I agree
With all my intellect, powers of seduction,
mind reading abilities, hypnosis, analytical prowess
and intellectual disposition –
that too being at the mature age of 40
I had met my match.
Even though I would brag and talk about this fact online –
That I was penniless in the Streets of Dubai –
only to become a millionaire who spend millions
and be titled as the so called #1 Personal Branding Coach in the World –
I got conquered by a young girl
With no formal education
No certification in Hypnosis
No certification in Mind Reading
No formal education in Character Analysis
Who hasn’t read a single self improvement book
Who hasn’t travelled the world
Who hasn’t spoken to hundreds of thousands of people
Who doesn’t have millions of followers online
Who cannot even blog, write or express her thoughts online
And the biggest shocker of them all….
WHO CANNOT EVEN COMMUNICATE A SINGLE WORD IN ENGLISH
This girl – managed to conquer me!
Shows you how Dumb, Stupid and Gullible I really am.
I have to admit – Yes, I am.
But it also goes to show you another harsh reality
This is how dumb men really are.
We all think with our dicks.
The so called theory –
The body can pump blood either to the “upper-head” or to the “dick-head” –
well I believe it now more than ever.
Before anything else – I will admit one thing
Yes – It was lust also.
I was physically attracted to her.
WHY WE MEN ALWAYS MAKE MISTAKES….
Come on – what do you expect?
I am a healthy young male
(alright, alright….not so young)
Even I have feelings
Given the fact I do not go to prostitutes, bar girls or sleep around
And coupled with the fact I stay completely alone
You have to give me some leeway!
So yeah – I will admit
Sex, Lust and Attraction was a very strong factor
In me choosing this girl.
Even now – even right now
as I think about this girl,
I cannot help but fantasize
about the sexual episodes
we have enjoyed together.
Every erotic fantasy you can come up with,
every hardcore lustful dream you may have,
ever ‘kamasutra’ styled list you can come up with – well we did it.
But more than the so called initial honeymoon phase
It was the happiness of finding ‘true love’
The prospect of finally coming to terms that
Yes – she is the one I will spend my whole life with
This is the woman I want
This is the person whom I will die for
This is the woman whom I will build my future with
This is the woman with whom I will have my children.
All I wanted to do was hug her and hold her
After all – the Honeymoon phase
does give you a queasy feeling now – doesn’t it?
And when you couple this with the emotional investment
and genuine intent I had towards her,
with the hope for us being a family together,
having children together and a future together –
she started to become my addiction.
A real serious addiction.
I had to hold her, touch her, hug her, kiss her, be with her –
there was nothing I didn’t want to do with her.
I know I sound more like a 16 year old –
but this is the impact she had on me.
She was perfect!
WHY SHE WAS PERFECT FOR ME….
(YES – I CAN HEAR IT ALOUD – IT’S THE HONEYMOON PHASE!)
I mean what more could I –
A ugly, fat, over-sized, beer bellied
(though I don’t drink – I eat a lot of sweets), old fart ask for?
She was young, beautiful, slim, fair, sexy, long haired, petite, child like –
EVERY SINGLE FUCKING THING – was PERFECT!!!
She would get up in the morning and cook for me.
She would clean keep the house perfectly in order for me.
She would constantly give me tons of hugs and kisses.
She would give me space to do my work.
There was absolutely nothing that was not perfect!
I even asked her if she wanted money – she would say no – I have.
So wouldn’t you trust such a woman with your life?
And even though there is this wise saying –
“If someone is too good to be true,
chances are, it is too good to be true.”
But me the great?
I firmly believed – Loy Machedo – Me,
The Emperor of Emperors
The Genius of Geniuses
The Legend of Legends
Was the exception to the rule.
My Cognitive Dissonance was even bigger than Mount Everest
And Deeper than the Mariana Trench
So how did this all begin?
When did it start?
And what is the background about this story?
Well…lets get this long story in a Nutshell…..
To Be Continued……
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